During a new interview for Vogue, Taylor Swift opened up about the way she was treated for a lot of dating when she was in her early 20s, and she had a few things to say about the misogynistic underlining of it all. Since then she has learned a lot about how to deal with it and apparently she has also found love with the actor Joe Alwyn after so much heartbreak!
This comes after she also said during a chat with Zane Lowe on Apple Music’s Beats 1 in 2019 that “ When I was 23 and people kind of took me back, kind of made slideshows of my dating life and put people in there that I had sat down once. next to a party and decided that my songwriting was more of a trick than a skill and a trade. It’s a way to take a woman who does her job and succeeds and makes things and in a sense it’s figuring out how to minimize that skill by taking something that everyone likes to do in their darkest, darkest moments, which is just too slut shame. ‘
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At the time, she was quite impressed with the criticism to the point that she decided not to fully date for two and a half years!
But then she realized it was time for her to ignore that misogynistic message that was keeping her from perhaps meeting the one before her or even just dating for “ excitement or pleasure, or learning new experiences or lessons. ” [Glamour UK interview, 2015]
Indeed, it’s safe to assume that she might not have been able to appreciate Joe Alwyn so much without learning so much from her past relationship.
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Taylor also may not have been so determined to keep her relationship healthy and away from the public eye, if not for all those public romances that failed.
Joe apparently appreciates a woman like her who has the skills and strength to build her own empire, even when dragged through the mud.
Another thing that made the actor feel like he was the right one for her was that he could give her something close to a normal life!
For a superstar like Taylor, that was the one thing she never thought she would get, but now that they have that together, she’s happier than ever!